As when water trickles upon a rock, the erosion that occurs is imperceptible – in the short-run. If the drip is allowed to continue for a long enough period of time, the rock will lose.
Are You Ready To Get Married?
Last night, I was a member of a Quaker clearness committee in support of a friend who is getting married next year. It was the first of several meetings over the course of the fall/winter, during which the group will explore issues in their relationship, and support them going forward into marriage. From what I […]
Musings of a Madwoman: Been Done Wrong
This is my third marriage, and I am no closer to understanding myself in relation to my husband than I was thirty-some years ago, when at barely-20, I first jumped the broom with husband #1. Well, perhaps a bit closer…
Say Something!
I hate this. This silent thing where feelings are hurt, egos bruised, where we (I) retreat to our corners and silently live separate lives under the same roof. Marriage sucks today. It was better last week. It will probably be better next week, but today I am not amused.
Happy Marriage Happy Soul
A happy marriage or partnership is good for the soul with studies now showing that we can even live longer if we’re lucky enough to be in a good or happy marriage. Our media and society seems obsessed with celebrities hooking up and having babies. But it feels at times that the media is even […]
Valentine’s Anniversaries
Valentine’s Day, as corny as it may sound, is my wedding anniversary. I figured with all the hearts and cupids around at that time of year my husband was bound to remember it. Sorry to disappoint all you romantics out there this was not a sentimental gesture, but a totally practical one on my part. […]
You Want Traditional Gender Roles, Eh?
Some people daydream about having a traditional mate — a real woman or a real man. But in today’s economic and socio-political climate, be careful what you wish for.
Marriage: The Better Half of Me
What happens when a disorganized, spontaneous woman marries an organized, meticulous man?
Tera Mera Ki Rishta (What is Our Relationship?)
An arranged marriage between a Canadian man and an Indian woman turns out to be a strong love match, despite the fact that one loves hockey and the other adores cricket.
Second Time Around
Jess and her husband broke up, made up, broke up, and now they’re together again. Will it last? Jess realizes that’s not the most important question when it comes to love.