Comments on: Coincidences http://lifeasahuman.com/2010/relationships/family/coincidences/ The online magazine for evolving minds. Sat, 26 May 2012 03:05:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Dan L Hays http://lifeasahuman.com/2010/relationships/family/coincidences/comment-page-1/#comment-3544 Dan L Hays Fri, 06 Aug 2010 23:29:47 +0000 http://lifeasahuman.com/?p=88816#comment-3544 I hear you Thriving! I've heard it said that I've worked through an issue when I yawn when I talk about it! I've gotten bored with it! Same for me with the violence with my Dad - like I'm now talking about events that happened to someone else. Not denying it, but I've just worked through the rage, the fear, the terror, the pain, the loss, and it doesn't impact me the same way! I know what you're saying! Dan I hear you Thriving! I’ve heard it said that I’ve worked through an issue when I yawn when I talk about it! I’ve gotten bored with it! Same for me with the violence with my Dad – like I’m now talking about events that happened to someone else. Not denying it, but I’ve just worked through the rage, the fear, the terror, the pain, the loss, and it doesn’t impact me the same way! I know what you’re saying!
Dan

]]> By: Thriving on the Other Side http://lifeasahuman.com/2010/relationships/family/coincidences/comment-page-1/#comment-3514 Thriving on the Other Side Wed, 04 Aug 2010 20:44:58 +0000 http://lifeasahuman.com/?p=88816#comment-3514 Ya know Dan its interesting, by this point in my life all of this story has become, well, dull. It's a reality now in my mind and world - so I don't see it as the horror it was when the memories first began to emerge. That's the BEAUTY of EMDR - the pain and horror are released and on the Other Side - I'm free! I still adore my mom, even though she's passed on. Wait til the end of the story - don't give up on her yet! Thriving.... Ya know Dan its interesting, by this point in my life all of this story has become, well, dull. It’s a reality now in my mind and world – so I don’t see it as the horror it was when the memories first began to emerge. That’s the BEAUTY of EMDR – the pain and horror are released and on the Other Side – I’m free!

I still adore my mom, even though she’s passed on. Wait til the end of the story – don’t give up on her yet!

Thriving….

]]> By: Dan L Hays http://lifeasahuman.com/2010/relationships/family/coincidences/comment-page-1/#comment-3493 Dan L Hays Tue, 03 Aug 2010 20:08:00 +0000 http://lifeasahuman.com/?p=88816#comment-3493 Wow, the most stunning betrayal yet! The abuse was horrific, like something out of a concentration camp! But your Mom's denial of it was equally shocking. All safety disappeared in your world, as you were taught "don't talk!" Wow, the most stunning betrayal yet! The abuse was horrific, like something out of a concentration camp! But your Mom’s denial of it was equally shocking. All safety disappeared in your world, as you were taught “don’t talk!”

]]> By: The Never Ending Puzzle : Life As A Human http://lifeasahuman.com/2010/relationships/family/coincidences/comment-page-1/#comment-3488 The Never Ending Puzzle : Life As A Human Tue, 03 Aug 2010 04:07:39 +0000 http://lifeasahuman.com/?p=88816#comment-3488 [...] was kinda mad at my mom after that revelation. Not really mad – disappointed. Abandoned. Betrayed to some level. I would stand up for anyone in [...] [...] was kinda mad at my mom after that revelation. Not really mad – disappointed. Abandoned. Betrayed to some level. I would stand up for anyone in [...]

]]> By: Thriving on the Other Side http://lifeasahuman.com/2010/relationships/family/coincidences/comment-page-1/#comment-3461 Thriving on the Other Side Sun, 01 Aug 2010 16:36:04 +0000 http://lifeasahuman.com/?p=88816#comment-3461 Hello Michael Thanks so much for stopping by and offering your support. Sitting here on the other side I can't imagine being any other place than, well, on the other side of my childhood and the impact it had on my life. So the courageous part of my journey has kinda faded for me - I'm happy and healing and living my life as the real me - and I can't imagine it any other way. That's the blessing that came with the courage. We can all thrive on the other side of horror - that's why I'm writing this blog - to show that surviving is not the only way to move through horror. We can choose to face our experiences, accept and move through them - and Thrive! Thanks for your support - means the world to me! Thiriving... Hello Michael

Thanks so much for stopping by and offering your support. Sitting here on the other side I can’t imagine being any other place than, well, on the other side of my childhood and the impact it had on my life. So the courageous part of my journey has kinda faded for me – I’m happy and healing and living my life as the real me – and I can’t imagine it any other way. That’s the blessing that came with the courage.

We can all thrive on the other side of horror – that’s why I’m writing this blog – to show that surviving is not the only way to move through horror. We can choose to face our experiences, accept and move through them – and Thrive!

Thanks for your support – means the world to me!

Thiriving…

]]> By: Michael Lebowitz http://lifeasahuman.com/2010/relationships/family/coincidences/comment-page-1/#comment-3431 Michael Lebowitz Sun, 01 Aug 2010 00:10:58 +0000 http://lifeasahuman.com/?p=88816#comment-3431 Oh my. The courage of this takes my breath away. Oh my. The courage of this takes my breath away.

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